As students, we all strive for building up our confidence level to increase our chances of creating a bright future. Healthy self-confidence definitely promotes our chances for attracting brighter opportunities not just in our professional lives but also personal. We face failures in our lives and sometimes these incidents shake our confidence and hence create hurdles for us. These hurdles in turn create an inner space of unhappiness and unworthiness. But the good news is this can be resolved and also if there is no such problem still these tips can be used to become better with each passing day.
Celebrate the smallest of your achievements: Yes, it is very important to make yourself happy and pat your back even on the smallest of achievements because this is what builds you to accept the larger achievements in life. Be it even the smallest of class tests achievements, ensure that you celebrate it completely.
Maintain a diary for the list of achievements: We all have good days and bad days. But during the bad day phase, we want something to pep us up and writing a diary mentioning all your achievements is a wonderful magical tool. This will instantly shift your focus from being a failure to being an achiever. Ensure that you mention even the smallest of your victory and read it again and again to let go off the feeling of a failure or loser.
Think of your unique talents and abilities: We are all blessed with some unique talents and abilities. Discover them and showcase them. For example, if you’re a good writer, then write your articles and publish them. Each positive note that you receive on your article will boost your confidence to write even better.
Set simple small goals initially: One needs to start the journey of achievements with setting simplistic goals which are achievable. Because this is what will invoke your inner power house to put in efforts with complete dedication. Once you’re into the achieving mode, then opt the tougher goals as by then your mind is trained to succeed and achieve goals in life.
Develop a positive attitude towards life: I am sure you must have read the story where it is an individual choice to see a half glass of water as half full or half empty. Similarly, it depends on how do you see the situations of your life. Either you can look at them as problems or as opportunities to grow and evolve in life. If you choose the latter choice, it definitely promotes a positive attitude towards life which leads to good self-confidence level.
Listen to motivational talks: There are motivational talks available from people into all fields. Choose your field and listen to their talks. They share various tips and tricks to improve in your subject. Apply these tips as this will open new doorways of knowledge as well as wisdom.
Nourish yourself with good books: Reading a good book always gives rise to new healthy thoughts and ideas. Develop the habit of reading at least before bed time, so as to not just improving your knowledge but also before sleeping getting into the positive thinking mode. The kind of thoughts you think before going to bed are directly responsible for your mood next morning.
Accept your mistakes: One of the biggest issue with us is not accepting our mistakes. Rather, we look for who to be blamed for the mistakes we have committed. But the inner self clearly knows who is at fault. This creates a rift in our actions and thoughts. Hence, the next time you make a mistake, be courageous to accept it and learn the lesson it is trying to teach you.
I am sure these above tips will certainly help you to re-invent yourself as well as your personality.